Maybe you want something other than the traditional white. We get it. In that case, florals are always sweet and safe, but you can add a slick ponytail and a bright shoe to jolt them with a little energy.
Go ahead and wear a head-turning color and big earrings (Lulu Frost makes the best vintage-y ones both your best friend and grandma will like). Just keep your nails simple. People are gonna wanna see that ring.
If you're gonna go for something super-fitted, the engagement party's the best time to do it, since during the wedding weekend you'll probaly want to opt for more ladylike silhouettes. We'd suggest something in a grown-up color palette, paired with elegant accessories.